Marketing Isn’t Math—It’s a Feeling

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Marketing Isn’t a Science—It’s a Gut Feeling You Fine-Tune

I used to believe marketing was all numbers and automation. Funnels, CTRs, ROAS, the usual. But somewhere between setting up yet another marketing funnel and obsessing over Google Analytics dashboards, I started to feel… hollow. Like I was just pressing buttons on a very fancy calculator.

But marketing isn’t a formula. It’s messy. It’s trial and error. It’s people, for god’s sake. And people are unpredictable, irrational, and beautifully complicated.

Sure, you can study all the academic frameworks, read all the SEO case studies, or quote Kotler until your voice gets hoarse. But real marketing? The kind that hits a nerve? It starts where the textbooks end.

“What if this doesn’t work?”

I’ve asked myself that question more times than I can count. Every time I publish a blog post that feels a little too honest or run an A/B test based on a hunch instead of data, that voice comes up. And honestly? That’s where the best stuff lives. The unpolished, gutsy stuff that isn’t perfect but is real.

If you’ve ever sent a newsletter at 11 pm just because inspiration hit, or scrapped a polished ad because it just felt too… sterile—welcome. You’re not alone. And frankly, I think you’re on the right track.

Education ≠ Expertise

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not anti-education. But I’ve met folks with MBAs in marketing who couldn’t write a human headline if their life depended on it. Then I’ve seen baristas, dancers, and ex-teachers crush it in content marketing. Why? Because they get people. They get emotion. They understand timing, tone, and texture.

Marketing education is helpful—yes, but it’s only part of the puzzle. Real education happens when you publish something and no one cares. Or when you finally nail a hook after 27 tries. That’s the stuff you don’t learn in school, and frankly, it’s the stuff that matters most.

The Hidden Curriculum of Marketing

There’s this “hidden curriculum” no one talks about. Like how to trust your gut even when the data disagrees. Or how to not spiral when your campaign flops. Or how to resist the pressure to sound like everyone else online.

One time, I wrote this dry, optimized blog post. Perfect keyword density, clean subheadings, and internal links galore. It ranked. Got traffic. But you know what? No one read to the end. Zero comments. Zero shares. Why? Because it had no soul. It was technically right but emotionally flat.

Then I wrote a chaotic little piece about burnout in marketing. No optimization. Rambling. Full of typos. It got picked up by a newsletter and shared like crazy. People emailed me and thanked me. That post did more “marketing” than anything I’d written that quarter.

Lean Into the Human

So if you’re studying marketing—or trying to “get in”—remember: you don’t need to be perfect. You need to be human. That means it’s okay not to have a perfect brand voice or a flawless strategy. Sometimes, it’s better to be weird, raw, and memorable than to be polished and forgettable.

Tools help. Research matters. But your instincts? They’re worth something too. Maybe more than you think.

For the Curious Souls

If you’re hungry to learn (and unlearn), here are a few rabbit holes worth exploring:

Whatever path you take, just know this: you don’t need permission to be here. If you care about people, language, and the way ideas spread, you’re already one of us.

Marketing is messy. Good. That’s where the magic lives.

May 26, 2025 (0)


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